Posts Tagged ‘questions’

Beauty

Why are we so drawn to what’s beautiful? Why do we, as humans, and especially women, long to be beautiful?

We run after beauty: beautiful clothes, beautiful music, beautiful homes, beautiful people. We run after art, after unspoiled nature, after beautiful words in poetry or books. Why?

We try to become beautiful: lotions, creams, cosmetics, diets, injections, dyes, surgery, orthodontics. We try to flatter: the perfect clothes, the perfect hair. Why?

The short answer I’ve heard: Because God made us that way.

Which raises the deeper question: Why?

Why did God make us to be drawn to beauty? Why not just make us indifferent to beauty?

To answer that we’re going to have to dive into both theology and philosophy.

To start with, beauty is real. If something is not real, it can’t possibly be beautiful; it has no attributes. By the same token, a non-real thing cannot be ugly either; it simply is not. God is real, and is the Source of all reality. Therefore (beauty being real and thus contained in “reality”), God is the Source of all beauty.

To come at this from another perspective, beauty is truthful. Conversely, truth is beautiful. God is the Source of all truth, for He Himself is Truth. Therefore, the Source of all beauty is God.

One more philosophical angle: the right, or what we might call justice or ethics, is beautiful. God is the Ultimate Judge and the Source of all that is right and just and ethical. Therefore, God is the Source of all beauty.

And now to my main theological argument: Love is beautiful. According to I John 4, all love is of God. In fact, God is love. He is the Source of all love. Therefore, the Source of all beauty is God.

One could substitute any of the following into the above paragraphs, with the same result:

  • Kindness
  • Nobility
  • Purity
  • Grace

So, back to our deep question: Why would God make us to run after beauty?

From what we’ve just said, that God is the Source of all beauty, it would seem we could also say that all beauty would also point back to God. If we chase beauty, we will begin to discover more and more of God, and more and more of His nature, just as you might learn more of me by witnessing my works and recognising in them an expression of my personhood.

Since God wants us to draw close to Him, it makes perfect sense that He should make us to desire beauty as a reflection of Himself.

All this to answer our question: Why do we desire beauty?

Answer: Because God made us that way.

Allowed?

Am I allowed?

Allowed to think this way, feel these feelings, say these words?

Allowed to express myself this way or that way? To love this person or that?

All my life I’ve been encouraged to break away from the world, refuse to follow the crowd. Did my encouragers not see? Did they not realise their humanity? Did they not see that a day would come when I might have to reject their ideas in my search for absolute truth? Did they not realise they would one day be the “crowd” I’d break away from?

I’ve come to see this. What if their ideas are flawed? Should I break from them and the crowd? These encouragers want me to think for myself, to be accountable to God, not men; can they handle it if I am? Can they stand the fruit of their teaching? If I choose and they disagree with my choice, can they accept that as the expression of their teaching in me?

I am allowed. But should I? Paul says everything is permissible, but not everything is beneficial. In his book Showdown, Ted Dekker tells of children who are taught to base all they do on the discovery of love, its understanding.

The discovery of love. Should I, then, exercise my freedom, my ultimate allowance, my free will, within the limits imposed by love and its discovery? Should I live, then, on a continual quest for a fuller understanding of love, rejecting actions that would turn me from my quest? Should I stop worrying so much about legalistic jots and tittles and instead pierce straight to the heart of law: love?

Yes. And I will.